Tanya Koens

is a pleasure activist, a sex geek, a sensualist and a passionate advocate for quality relationships and communication skills.  With thousands of hours of clinical experience and having studied under some of the world leaders in sex education, Tanya is one of the leading lights in sex and relationships in Australia … she gives people language to tackle sensitive subjects and believes that a healthy sex life has positive impacts in all areas of life.  She works across self esteem, anxiety, trauma, diversity, inclusivity, relating and sex.  Non-judgemental and easy to talk to, she can help you achieve the pleasure, love and style of relating that you seek.

 To see what clients say about Tanya click  here

To see what clients say about Tanya click here

FBi Radio - lets talk about sex podcast


Tanya is now the resident sexologist and pleasure activist on FBi Radio.  Catch Tanya every second Monday on Mornings with Bridie Tanner  for Lets Talk About Sex on FBi Radio 94.5fm in Sydney or www.fbiradio.com.

In July we are talking about alcohol and substances and sex, so tune in and text or call in with your questions.


Catch Tanya joined The Hook Up on Triple J on Sunday 10 June to talk all about INCELs, sexual frustration, how to manage frustration, seeing sex workers and the important of touch.  

forthcoming workshops


CONsent - keeping you save & enhancing your pleasure

Kink On - Studio Kink  https://www.studiokink.com/kinkon/
9 June 2018

Using the wheel of consent Tanya will discuss how consent can encompass and then transcend safety into a pleasure enhancing tool for lovers to use

Consent can be used from safety through to see negotiations through to getting the maximum pleasure out of your sexual and play interaction

Come to this workshop to learn just to radical consent can be. 


Tantric phallus pleasuring workshop

Kink On - Studio Kink  https://www.studiokink.com/kinkon/
11 June 2018

Whether you own a phallus, have an energetic phallus or like to pleasure phalluses, this workshop promises a fun experience for all.  Better still there may be chocolate!

As a pleasure activist, Tanya is keen to get people talking about sex and pleasure.  In this workshop she will get people talking by using their bodies.  It’s fun, flirty, very sexy as well as educational!  And you don’t have to take your clothes off!

Using breath and intention we will create fun and interactive opportunities to explore phallus pleasuring.  This workshop is a fun way to show you how you can give and receive pleasure in a deliberate and embodied way.


Media SExpert

Tanya is a regular on Macquarie Radio Lifestyle shows: The Good Life with Jono Coleman, Lifestyle Overnight with David Prior, Lifestyle Mornings with Tim Webster & Dee Dee, Talking Relationships with Jono Coleman. Tanya also appears on ABC Radio's Nightlife with Philip Clark and Triple J, The Hook Up and Hack. She has also appeared on 2SER's program Digital Thinking. Click the images above for her latest podcasts or articles. You can hear all of her podcasts > here> .



Tanya is preparing  a number of workshops for 2018 and a program will be up soon.  Watch out for:
- Intimate discussions for professionals
- Working with couples with desire discrepancy
- Master class for penises
- The Wheel of Consent
- Female sexuality groups
- Orgasmic Yoga
- How to be a good lover


Surry Hills Therapy is an inclusive practice where all sexualities, sexual expressions and practices are welcome.